wont tulpamancing be counterproductive to someone who partakes in mindfulness and concentration meditation, since spending time in ones imagination seems to go against the concept of 'living in the moment'?
living in the moment is not being trapped thinking about the past or the future. As long as you are present to the current experience, you are living in the moment.
11:09 AM
tulpas are a phenomenon that manifests in the present, just like everything else. As long as you are aware of such, you are being in the moment.
although it seems to me that the same branch of thought is the one employed when creating a tulpa in general - it's a very intensive use of imagination
that is true, mental objects are the exact same as physical objects when it comes to meditation
11:12 AM
though tulpamancing seems to be about ruminating on an interior, mental object, when teachers of mindfulness meditation would advise on doing the opposite
mindfulness can also mean being aware of your thoughts, for one. The general meaning is just, awareness of your awareness, of what you're placing your attention on.
I think my main question would be, is someone who is prone to catatonic thought patterns/ruminative thinking somehow compromise their mental health if that person has been using mindfulness (in the traditional, meditative sense) as a crutch to avoid such thought patterns?
yeah, I'd certainly advice getting those thoughts in order; it's not easy to do tulpamancy with those kinds of thoughts running through your head, from personal experience.
i'm not sure if you have had prior experience with meditation, but do you feel that forcing might interfere with focus meditation, like vipassana/zazen?
11:23 AM
breath meditaiton
11:24 AM
feeling constrained to do passive forcing when one would otherwise be mindful of the breath etc.
interfere, I'd say unlikely; they can always just stay silent when you're meditating on your own.
11:25 AM
and, well yeah you'd want to cement your breath mindfulness into a more general awareness of the perceptions, I think? In order for passive forcing to be as productive
11:26 AM
on a side note it can be pretty interesting when they meditate with you
mmmm, well, in some places or others, but the general way of things is that you just go asking around and you get response from who's available
11:42 AM
if you want someone to mentor you closely you can just, ask in a chat or a forum post and I'm pretty sure someone would be available if you try a couple times
We've been doing this for a year and a half, have experience in almost everything aside from switching/imposition. And, we've written a pretty good guide
Well, the situations with me is quite frustrating... I can visualize now (and, being honest, not bad at this), but her (I assume so? ) never really talked, or never did I realized any signs of communication... Though I believed her existence, there is no solid evidence yet... Do I have anything special to do? Or simply just waiting and forcing is enough?
mm. Well, try this next time; take some quiet meditative time and offer her some ways in which you'd like her to express herself, to reach out to you. Narrate the ways in which she may communicate with you. You could even like, offer some examples of sort. You don't have to parrot/puppet her if you don't want to; you can just make the example with another thoughtform.
1:46 PM
While you're doing this, well, keep open for when she might actually start doing it herself.
And she kinda thinks on her own I made her in 30 min. Well thinking how her personality should be. And imagine what she looks like and how her voice should be. And she just started asking questions